Fredrick Mugira
July 03, 2013
A typical day for a female
student in secondary school in Uganda consists of attending class, hanging out
with colleagues and maybe waking up early for morning preps. But for a senior
two student Annet (not real name), every day has been unpredictable.
Annet, aged 16, is six months
pregnant. She got pregnant on her first day of having sex. The father of her kid is her classmate. They
have both been studying at a secondary school in Isingiro district until Annet
went into hiding.
I met Annet at Ruti Health Center
III in Nyamitanga Mbarara municipality. She was among the people attending a
sensitization meeting on reproductive health by FABS Production- a community
based organization in Mbarara.
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A sensitization meeting on reproductive health by FABS Production- a community based organization in Mbarara. Speaking is the Organization’s Director Innocent Nabasa. |
Annet sat on the bench quietly. She
did not interfere in her neighbors affairs. Her stomach protruded a bit. She had
put on a little weight and her cheeks filled. To a casual observer, Annet
seemed just fat, but what a wrong impression that was.
She sat on the dusty bench with a
plea in her eyes, but seemed not to have enough breathe to translate this plea
into words.
I developed interests in Annet a
few minutes before she sat down. She passed by a group of three seemingly rural
women who all turned and looked at her. She also turned and glowered at them sullenly.
It was not until the end of the
sensitization meeting that I came to talk to Annet.
I was about to read the message
on a poster in the health center’s
waiting room when the door of the counseling room opened and Annet came out.
As I created rapport with her, a curious
numbness began to spread over her. It took
the intervention of Nabasa Innocent, the Director of FABS Productions for Annet
to tell me her story. As Nabasa tried to pick up the trend of our conversation,
Annet felt more relaxed but her arms remained folded across her chest. She had already
narrated her story to Nabasa in the counseling room.
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Innocent Nabasa, the Director FABS Production addressing the participants |
“The first thing I thought about when
I found out I was pregnant was to kill myself,” she said
As Annet further narrated to me
in the local language Runyankole, I came
to learn that she was coming from school when her schoolmate approached her and
convinced her to start a love affair. The boy, a teenager too, did not offer
her anything but she was easily swayed by her good behaviors and the caring
attitude. That was close to the end of last year.
A few months later, she was
pregnant. When her boyfriend (she refused to name him) realized that he was in
danger of being arrested by police to face defilement charges, he tried to deny
the pregnancy.
The more the pregnancy grew, the
more she found it hard to wake up early in the morning to read. She couldn’t hang out with colleagues. Her class attendance deteriorated. She would be sick
on some days. And for the fear of her parents noticing, she decided turn to turn
to a lonely life.
As the stomach continued to
protrude, she decided to drop out of school and hide from parents. She is now hiding at her sister’s home in
Ruti Mbarara. It is from her hiding place in Ruti where she learnt about the FABS
Production’s sensitization meeting on reproductive health.
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Participants, including girls of Annet's age attending the sensitization meeting |
Nabasa told me Annet was heartened
by a movie she had just watched during the sensitization exercise.
“She narrated to us this same story while
crying, we have referred her to our partners,” Nabasa told me.
Her referral letter indicated she
was referred to Marie Stopes Uganda.
I gazed at Annet as she walked homewards
confused. We bade no good bye. She held her referral letter in her left hand as
the surrounding buildings and trees swallowed her.